I Cheated On My Girlfriend

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It may come has a shocker to you but I had a girlfriend at one point. Yes, I cheated on my girlfriend and I wish I hadn’t done that. I’m going to give you a few reasons to not cheat on your girlfriend and to just break up with her if you’re miserable or just not happy at all.

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I Cheated On My Girlfriend, But You Shouldn’t

Here are a few reasons to not cheat on your girlfriend and to just break up with her if you’re unhappy. This is, of course, assuming that you’ve already found a horny local girl to hook up with.

You’ll Regret It
If you do cheat on your girlfriend, you’re going to regret doing it. Maye not right away but at some point, you’re going to feel like a complete asshole. It can eat away at you and it’s not going to help you sleep at night. Not to mention that it’s bad karma too.

It’s Not Worth It
Cheating isn’t worth it. It’s much more respectable for you to just break up with the girl that you’re seeing versus having sex or cheating in any capacity what so ever. It’s just not worth it at all.

She’s Going To Hate You
I’ve never done well with breakups and the girl that I cheated on now hates my guts. She would rather see me get hit by a bus or not survive an earthquake than see me out with the girl I cheated on her with. She hates me. If I was honest she wouldn’t hate me now.

Girls Get Even
Some girls can be crazy and by crazy I mean down right nuts! Cheating on a girl can be a death wish. She’ll tell everyone she knows how small your dick is and how bad you were in bed. She’ll put you on blast publically and make you the laughing stock of the town. They always get even. Don’t think otherwise.

The New Girl Isn’t Worth It
If the girl you are hooking up with knows that you have a girlfriend and you think that you’re both going to be a happy ever after couple then you have it all wrong. If she knows you’re cheating on your girlfriend now, then she will always have that fear in her head that you’ll cheat on her too.

The moral of the story is the I cheated on my girlfriend to get a little extra side pussy and it wasn’t worth it one bit. I should have just split up with her instead.

If you’re looking to date or even hook up with other people just breakup with her so you can join a hookup site and start fucking girls.

Lining Up A Date In Public

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Trying to score a date while out in public isn’t the easiest thing in the world. I’ve had many times where I’ve been left hanging because I either said something wrong or did something wrong. Heck, it happens to the best of us. What doesn’t happen to the best of us is getting rejected all the time. If you’re interested in lining up a date in public with someone then and that in a spur of the moment type situation, then I’ll give you the tools to be successful at it!

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Tips For Lining A Date Up In Public

Here are a few tips that have helped me meet people in public and line up a date with them right there. Read my article and if you have any questions after you can contact me or leave a comment.

Tip 1) Join The Best Site
For starters, you need to use a popular hookup site that everyone else uses to better connect yourself with single women in the local area. What this does is it allows you to develop and instant connection which can honestly put you in a different stratosphere in terms of getting laid than anywhere else. I’ve given you plenty of suggestions of where to sign up and what to do. I think you know enough!

Tip 2) Be Spontaneous And Open
being uptight and not having any spontaneity in your step isn’t going to get you anywhere, especially if you’re looking to line up a date in public with a girl you just connected with right then and there. No one likes someone that’s too much of a planner because they simply aren’t run at all. You’ve got to be open about hooking up with someone that wants to put you in touch with their wild side. Even if that means dropping everything you have planned to make that happen!

Tip 3) You Make The Suggestion
Women can be shy creatures and even though chivalry is somewhat dead, women still expect men to make the first move. If you’re a guy and you do make the first move, chances are you’re going to do better than if you hadn’t made the move. Suggest that the two of you go grab some drinks right now and hang out. Do it through the dating app messaging system if you’re too shy to do it in person. Whatever you do, you need to do it now!

Tip 4) Don’t Be A Creeper
If you get some sort of vibe that the woman you have just met is not digging you then you need to back off a bit and not look like a creeper. These online dating sites are small and the local community is even smaller. Don’t be one of those guys that get talked about because he can’t accept rejection. Unfortunately, it’s a part of life and just like anything else in this world, you’ve got to accept it, get back out there and keep swinging like a bastard. You’ll hit a home run eventually.

That my friend is the best way to line up a date in public. If you absolutely didn’t understand anything I just shared with you then you might be an idiot. Just kidding. No, but seriously, read this again and let me know what you need help with! If you don’t believe me, I suggest you read my about me page again where I share all the information on how much of a stud I am.

Bold Date Ideas To Help You Clinch It

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Most people have the misconception that if you’re trying to date someone using a bang dating site then you need not put forth any effort. This my friend is the furthest thing from the truth possible. You still need to work at it if you want to get laid and I’ve got just the perfect date ideas that can help you clinch things here!

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Five Bold Date Ideas That Clinch Things Up 99% Of The Time

Fun Adventure Park
If you live near an amusement park or some other type of fun park with action packed activities then I suggest that you spend time determining if this is something the girl you met online would go for. Some girls love adventurous guys and this approach may show her that you’re willing to put in some effort here. That’ll score you some points and perhaps even get you laid more.

Tour Time
Want to get a girl to like you? Take her to a winery! If you live near a winery or brewery, then this absolutely perfect! There’s no better reason for you day drink other then on a tour at a winery. You’ll both learn something new and hopefully she’ll be impressed that you didn’t want to just do the typically “get wasted at a bar” type date that she’s sick and tired of. The truth be told, all you need to do is get her to like you enough to want to fuck. Taking a tour and showing her that you’re into more than just fucking is a great way to actually get in her pants.

Brunch Time
Casual dates typically take place a night and in a quiet or sometimes crowded bar. Going on a brunch date is a great change of pace and it might work to your advantage. You’re thinking outside of the box with getting inside her box being priority number one. Find a place that offers unlimited mimosas, take your date there and have some fun with her.

Sweat
You both could go for a workout in a high-end gym or spa. This is a great choice because working out raises testosterone levels and that can help boost your libido! There’s something sexy about seeing a hot girl in yoga pants. The other plus about this is that you get to see what she looks like without close on basically. Yoga pants and a sports bra show off quite a bit.

Local Zoo
Visiting the zoo can put people in great moods. That is unless they get attacked by lions. All in all, though it’s proven to positively impact the moods of people. I’ve taken a few girls that I met on Instabang to my local zoo and ended up hooking up with them after the date. I don’t know why but it just worked well.

Remember just like with anything else in life, if you want to be successful you have got to be bold. Bold date ideas get you banged. Simple as that.

Ways To Blow A Dating Chance

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I’ve been using both online dating sites and the standard local public meeting tactic to hook up with some local women. I know some friends that are taking the same approach and they are really having a much harder time than I. It’s not because I’m a professional either. It’s simply because they blow their chances all the time. I’m going to share how they do so just so you can avoid doing the same.

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Here’s How To Blow A Dating Chance

Not Approaching Women
If a woman makes eye contact with you, that means she is interested in you. I’m not saying she wants to fuck you, but she’s somewhat interested in you and has this sense of wanting to knwo more about you. The mistake that most guys make is that they don’t act on it. You should approach a woman that makes eye contact with you. If you simply ignore her, you’re not going to get anywhere. Her eye contact is basically an open invitation to start a conversation with her. The same goes for if a girl messages you on a dating site. If you ignore her then you’re an idiot!

You Don’t Ask For Her Number
If you’re talking to a girl, then you’ve got to ask ehr for her number. Most girls aren’t going to come right out and give you their phone number. They expect you to ask for it. The best thing to do is to get your small talk out of the way as quickly as possible. That way you can start working on her. Whether you’re messaging with a girl through a sex network or if you’re at a Starbucks in line getting coffee, be confident and ask the girl for her number.

You Don’t Follow Up Timely
Not following up in a timely manner can cost you a date and even a fuck session. If you put in the work to get her number and you take no action at that point, then you’re just an idiot with a number. Number don’t mean shit. What you do with that number is what matters most.

You Try To Be Cool
Women can tell when a guy is trying to hard. It’s like they have this sensory that allows them to identify when someone is really trying too much. If you’re trying to be too cool, then you will look like a douchebag and she’ll think just that of you.

You Chat Too Long
Chatting is great but that is not the objective here. If you’re chatting with a girl online for too long or on too many occasions and it’s not leading to anywhere but another chat, well my friend, you may have blown your chance of going on a real date let alone hooking up with someone.

Not Inviting Her Back
If you don’t invite a girl back to your place or to a hotel, then how do you expect to get laid? A female isn’t generally going to invite you back to her place. Instead, you have got to be a man and take some initiative. You will get laid more if you so serious interest and take action.

Now, if you find yourself doing any of these things on a regular basis, then I suggest you snap the fuck out of it and start changing your ways if you want to bang girls!

Three Keys To Finding A Horny Girl Online

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Most people that try and find someone online to have a booty call, just fail miserably. There are so many adult dating sites out there that this hard to know which ones work. I’ve removed that factor from the equation by giving you one that works great. Now that we’ve eliminated that factor, it’s time for me to share the three key components to finding a horny girl online for the booty call of your life.

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The Keys To Finding A Horny Girl To Bang Online

There are a few things that you need to know when it comes to having the booty call of a lifetime. Pay close attention because it could mean the difference between getting laid or getting nothing.

Amazing Profile Picture
Want to find and attract a really horny girl on a dating site? Then you better have an amazing profile that makes you shine like a diamond in the sky. It’s a known fact that having a kickass profile picture for your dating profile makes a huge difference. Use a great unique background and stay far away from the bathroom.

Great Impression
You have no other option but to make a great impression on your potential booty call. The only way to make that happen is to spice up your dating profile biography. Make it look legit. Don’t come out and say your rich if you’re not but don’t make it seem like you’re a broke loser, even if you really are one. Fill out your profile in its entirety and keep it interesting. No one wants to date someone that has 5 cats and lives with his mom, so don’t even think about putting that in your profile!

Be Persistent AF
Message girls to get laid. Simple as that really! If you to be successful then you need to take some consistent action and be persistent. Draft a script that gets the best response and use that approach multiple times daily if you want to win! Eventually, you’ll find a horny girl online to fuck.

Those are three keys to getting lucky using an online dating site. You’ll find that booty call you’ve been searching for it you look hard enough. Trust me! I’ve probably gotten laid using hookup sites more than anyone you know. If you’re doubtful, well, just check out my about page or the homepage of my blog to learn more about me.

How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back For Good

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Ever wanted to get your ex girlfriend back? Well, you’re not the only one. Relationships can often end due to utter confusion and misunderstanding. During the heat of your last argument, you may say certain stuff to your girlfriend that ended in your relationship being finished. If she fought back and broke up with you and after a while you realized that you still want her back in your life, it’s not too late. The way I see it is this, if you’re looking to get back with your ex girlfriend I’m going to help you and if you’re looking to meet local girls to bang then I can help you with that as well.

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How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

Getting your ex is easy if you carefully plan out. Remember that both of you were in love with each other so if you have some feelings left for her, she probably too has some feelings left for you. If you are serious about getting her back in life, you will probably want to do the following:

Correct Everything Wrong

If you feel your ex girlfriend was particularly annoyed by a certain personality trait of yours, its time to improve on that. If you can’t completely eliminate that personality trait, try to at least reduce it for her. If you want her back, you will have to make an effort and get rid of the negativity that broke your relationship up in the first place. If you want to get her back then don’t be so fucking negative!

Change Your Attitude

Most relationships end because of people’s shitty attitudes. If you have a very carefree attitude about life, it’s time to turn the things around and start being a bit more mature. Women love guys who are serious and mature about certain aspects of life. So, if this is the main reason your girlfriend left you, you need to start looking at things from a different perspective if you want to get her back. Simple as that really.

Don’t Sound Desperate

Never ever sound desperate when you want her back. The last thing she wants is you begging her to come back into your life. If you really want to attract her again, try to keep a positive attitude and show her that your life is just fine without her. Soon she will start to wonder why you are so happy and that will get her thinking about you. It’s worked in the past. I also recommend being confident but not overly confident. That last thing you want to do is say the wrong thing.

Say Sorry, Become Friends

After a bit of time and self improvement, go ahead and give her a nice apology. Talk about the good times you’ve had together and show interest in becoming friends again. Once you are friends again and she is comfortable with you and notices the differences you have achieved, positively and confidently tell her that you still have feelings for her and she will probably be happy to be back with you.

If all else fails and you can’t win your ex back, then don’t worry, you still have a shot at getting pussy. Just join a sex site that caters to people looking for sex. You’ll find plenty of people looking to rebound on their!

How To Get Out Of A Bad Dating Rut

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If you’re in a bad dating rut, then you should think about getting yourself out of that rut. It’s not the end of the world and it’s certainly something that you can’t do. That’s especially true because I’m going to tell you exactly how to get out of any shitty bad dating rut!

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Ways To Get Out Of A Bad Dating Rut

Here are a few simple ways that you can get out of a bad dating rut.

Stop Going On So Many Dates
Sometimes less is more. If you’re going on hundreds of dates and you’re not getting anywhere, then you need to switch your game up. I suggest going on higher quality dates instead of continuing to up your numbers. This is why I spend so much time on a sex dating site versus mainstream sites. I prefer to go on fewer dates that I know I’m going to get laid on versus a ton of shitty mainstream dates that put me in a dating rut.

Lose The Negative Vibe
If you want to get out of your rut then you need to have a positive attitude. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had a negative mindset and it’s really destroyed everything. Tony Robbins always talks about being positive about things and he’s right. Lose the negative vibe if you want to get out of your rut.

Stop Settling
We settle for almost everything in life. Settling for someone or people that you no longer want to date is something that will destroy you. I stopped settling for people long ago and I’ve since improved my dating game for the better.

Change Up The Scenery
If you want to get out of your dating rut then you need to change up the scenery. If the local bars aren’t working for you then try a new bar. If the dating site you’re using isn’t working, then try another one. You’ve got to take some action and change things for something to actually change.

Let Go
I’m not telling you to give up, I’m just telling you to let go of what’s not working for you. Sometimes holding onto something or some things because you are comfortable can be bad. You’ve got to let go if you want to get out of any type of rut that you’re in. It’s called progression.

Those few tips should help improve your dating success for sure!

Where To Meet Local Hot Women In Your Town

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It is quite difficult to meet women in places around any town or city these days. Thanks to social media, smartphone apps and online dating sites, you can detect horny women around you, however, it can still be really tough to score a woman in your local area. Thankfully, there are still places where you can meet hot women that you can try your luck with and may even end up having a date with or even better, banging them. It all takes a bit of confidence from you as well as being in the right place at the right time. There are plenty of fish to catch in the sea you just need to know how to meet women.

If you are not sure where to start your search for the perfect sex partner, that’s where I come into play here. The following are some of the best places where you can meet women and strike a conversation without looking like a creep. Again, don’t be a fucking creep here. You’ve got to play the game still. This might help you though.

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Places To Meet Women Around Town

At The Grocery Store

The grocery store is a great place to meet new women. However, striking a conversation with a woman at a grocery store is tricky business. No matter what, do not start your conversation at the grocery store with a pun or a pickup line that you would usually see in movies. Women are not expecting you to “hit on them” in the grocery store and it can immediately turn their defensive mode on.

Instead, try to strike a conversation with a woman while you are waiting in the checkout queue or along the shelves of healthy food. Here you can simply tell her that you are quite impressed with her choice of that salmon or steak or salad. From there on you can discuss a new recipe with her and even talk to her about how she cooks her food.

When you show her that you too have an interest in healthy eating, there is no doubt that you will immediately make a connection with her. If this particular store is her “go-to” grocery store, then you can try and go at the same time next week and see if you run into her again.

It may help you take things to the next level. Also, as soon as you get to the grocery store, I recommend that you log into a good hook up site like Instabang to see if any women at the store are members of the site. This may up your chances of getting laid.

At The Gym

The local gym is an excellent place to meet hot and healthy women. You can approach them and talk to them about diets and workout plans during your break. Just don’t go and talk to someone while they’re exercising because they will probably ignore you.

Doing so will give off the wrong vibe and you’ll blow your chances. Trust me, no one likes the guy that interrupts people during their workouts. He’s super annoying and yes, people talk about him all the time behind his back. So I urge you not to be that guy.

At The Coffee Shop

Coffee shops are classics when it comes to finding women. A lot of people go there to relax and read the paper or do whatever they want. Find an opportunity to strike a conversation because at that time they are pretty relaxed and open to discussion.

Keep the conversation light and simple. If you get the vibe that the person you’re talking to isn’t into you then I suggest you move on. But if they are into you, go ahead and ask them if you can sit down to talk to them.

These are all perfect ways to meet women in the local area. Try out one or two of them and let me know how it goes. Remember, don’t come on too strong here. Play it cool and you actually might be able to go on a date with a local girl.

How To Break Up With Someone

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Breaking up with your girlfriend or boyfriend can be devastating for both of you. It is not an easy thing to do and a lot of people end up hurting each other a lot. But if you really want to break up, then you have no choice of coming clean. If you plan on using a casual sex site, then I recommend that you break up immediately.

You can always minimize the damage that breaking up with someone might result in. Here are some good ways to break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend. I actually called with quits with my girlfriend awhile back before I started using Instabang. It was the best thing I’ve done in years.

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Break Up With Someone The Correct Way

Timing

The timing of break is very important. If a certain important event is coming in someone’s life, hold off on the announcement and let them get through that important event first. Once the event is over, you can then come clean and tell the other person that you want things to end. Putting added stress on someone during an important event is a bad idea. It’s not going to help you or your partner one bit. In fact, it might make you look like a dickhead if you do it before the event. You’ll look like an asshole, plain and simple.

Be Personal

Never break up over the phone or text messages or on Facebook. If you have been together for a long time, the other person deserves to know everything in detail and in person. If you cannot face your partner, then the next beast option would be to break up over the phone. The phone option is the very last resort. I urge you to meet in person so you look like a stand-up person.

If you can and have the courage, it is always less damaging to meet the person and talk about the difference and end it there. Sometimes you can end things in a very civil manner in person.

Don’t Be Harsh

If you know your partner is sensitive and doesn’t take things like these lightly, try not to be harsh and avoid blaming them. If you do that it will leave a very bad scar on their heart and they might find trouble being themselves in the future.

Always be polite if you are the one to break up because you don’t want to leave bad memories for the other person. Trust me, you’re definitely better off leaving on good terms because you never know what the future may bring between you and this person mentioned.

Be Ready

When you are going to announce that you want to break up, expect things to get out of hand. Be ready for things to heat up and try to remain as calm as possible. The last thing you want to do is to end things on a very bad note.

Avoid the fight, be calm and don’t let things get too much out of control.

Don’t Lie

No matter what happens, if you are going to break up with someone, be honest with them. Don’t lie about the relationship and let them know exactly why you are breaking up with them. It also includes if you have found someone better, then let them know. Of course, if you’re already having sex with someone you met online, then you don’t need to go into too much detail. However, it’s best to not let the person think that it’s their fault if it’s not.

What Does Friends With Benefits Mean?

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Friends with benefits, also known as FWB, is a casual sexual relationship with the opposite sex which does not include any emotional commitment. Having friends with benefits is a dream come true for most people because they don’t have to get into any kind of emotional connection with the other person and it all just revolves around having casual sex. But if you are not careful, this kind of hook up relationship can be turned into a disaster.

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The Meaning Of Having Friends With Benefits

When you decide to get into ‘friends with benefits’ with someone, try to steer clear of the following:

Never Fall In Love

No matter what happens, do not start to fall in love with the person you are having this relationship with. That goes for especially if you’re using a dating site that caters to people that just want to bang. Falling in love with someone is more than just sex, it’s a whole different emotional connection and you simply don’t want to get into it if you are there just for casual sex.

Never Tell Your Friends About It

You don’t want to tell your friends that you are having a casual sexual only relationship with the person. What if your friends start liking the person you are just having sex with? This could get really bad for your friendship so make sure never to introduce this person to your friends or family.

Don’t Try To Go On Serious Dates

Avoid at all costs going on a “serious” date with the person you are having a “sex only” relationship. Remember when I said do not fall in love with them no matter what happens? If you start dating the person on the regular and you start spending a lot of time with them, an emotional connection will build up and feelings will start to blossom. They may want a long term relationship at that point. It happens every single time.

Don’t Talk About Anything Too Personal

Getting too personal with this special friend can result in one blossoming feeling of love and more. Try not to discuss any emotional and private stuff about your life. If you really want to talk to them, talk to them about sex. Your relationship with this person should only be limited to sex and your topic of discussion should also be limited to things that aren’t emotional.

Follow these pointers and you will definitely have a great time enjoying your friends with benefits relationship. But remember, this kind of relationship cannot last forever because the other person may one day fall in love with someone else.

And when that happens, your friends with benefits spree will probably end. So do yourself a favor, and open doors to a possible relationship with someone else while you experience this one. The other suggestion that I have for you is to just fuck and not get attached to anyone ever. That’s always worked pretty damn well for me!