Planning on going a date with someone you met online? Perhaps you really like them and you want to bang? I’ve got some more good date ideas that may just help you get lucky. You can always take her to watch a movie together or have a nice romantic dinner somewhere. But do you really want to be the typical guy that does just dinner? I mean, there’s nothing wrong with dinner but if you’re looking for some more ideas, I’ve got you covered…

If you really want to impress a girl and get her wooing you all over, you should definitely skip the traditional movie/theater/romantic dinner ideas and look for ideas that are not so common. This will really surprise her and she will think of you as a unique and perhaps more creative/fun person to hang with.

Here are some unique but good date ideas that break the traditional barrier of dating:

Take Her Go-Karting

Go-Karts are extremely fun and couples race in them all the times. But very few dare take their girl on a date with Go-Karts in mind. When you try to impress your girl with your amazing driving skills and knock some guys off the course you’ll give her something to laugh about.  When you finish, you will realize that she enjoyed the experience a lot more than she would have on a movie or a dinner. Getting her to really enjoy something is key to getting her to want to bang you.

Karaoke Night At A Bar

If you’re looking for good date ideas, then you need to find the local karaoke bar! Karaoke is fun if both of you like music. Even if you don’t particularly like music, hitting up the karaoke bar is still fun. It includes drinks, dancing and an excuse to make yourself look like an idiot. Both of you will have a nice connection going on when you try to sing with each other. Try to impress her with your vocals or go completely silly if you want to make her laugh. Karaoke nights are usually very fun and are extremely successful for dating. I’ve fucked a few girls after a night of bad singing. It doesn’t matter how you sound on the mic. Trust me on that one!

Take Her To The Park

A local park is an excellent place to go on a date. However, it’s important that you check with the girl to make sure she’s a nature girl. If you both are nature lovers, going to nice park will really put you two in a good mood. Bring some wine, cheese, and other snacks. You can even head to the park at night if you dare. Find a good spot and lie down and watch clouds or stars at night. From there on you can try and put the moves on the girl you met online. After all, you both connected to fuck and there’s a good chance she’ll be down to fuck if you play your cards right!

Cook With Her

Now this is something very different but if you do it right, it can do wonders for you. Women really like a man who can cook. So why not hit her place or take her to yours for a good home cooking experience. Tell her you wanted to experiment with a new recipe and you would appreciate if she could help you out. This has worked well in the past for me. I’ve been in situations where I start cooking, crack a bottle of wine open and next thing you know I’m fucking the girl I invited over on my kitchen counter.

That should be plenty of good date ideas for you! Let me know if you need anymore and I’ll be glad to help!

Getting someone to like you is all about having a balanced attitude. If you get too nice, they will probably start considering you as a friend. And if you are too much of an asshole, they might just want to get away from you. If you’re too nice, they may be suspect, LOL.

The perfect way to get a girl to like you is keeping balanced between being nice and being a badass. Some of the most powerful laws of attraction are listed below. Follow them and you will get any girl to like you in no time.

Communication
Communication is very important when it comes to getting a girl to like you. Talk to her about everything she wants to talk about. Be sure to bring about interesting topics that capture her interest and make her laugh.

You need to treat her differently and with your maximum attention. And if she starts taking an interest in your conversation, that means she’s either interested in the conversation, you, or perhaps both. She isn’t going to fall in love with you at this point. She may never, but if you keep the conversation interesting enough, she may want to fuck you at least.

Don’t Be Too Nice
Have you heard how nice guys always fail to get the girl? It’s because they are so nice that the girl starts taking them for granted. Don’t feel bad if you have to say ‘no’ at some point. Remember that I said balance is crucial? You will have to learn to ignore her at times if you don’t want to end up landing in the friend zone. The friend zone sucks and it’s not going to get you laid. Trust me on that.

Listen To Her
There are a lot of women who enjoy talking a lot. The girl you like probably enjoys talking as well. If she’s talking then you listen. Occasionally give her advice if she asks for it or reassures her that you agree with her. Once she knows you’re a good listener, you’ll be hearing a few things that you might enjoy, especially when she’s talking to you about things she likes when it comes to sex. Be sure to pay very close attention!

Body Language Is Important
If you want a girl to like you, you have to get a little physical. You can casually hug her or even touch her shoulders and arms from time to time. This is especially true if you’re on a first hookup date that’s extremely casual and geared towards getting laid. See how she reacts to your actions.

If she starts returning your touches with some of her own, this is a huge hint that she has secretly started to feel attracted to you.

Surprise Her
Surprise her with occasional text messages and emails. Just make sure you keep it private. What I mean by that is that you don’t want to blast it socially on any websites other than a dating site. Send her good morning and good night messages but make sure you don’t do it on a daily basis. Keep a nice balance and surprise her often with small things like messaging at random times.

That about sums up my tips for getting a girl to like you. If that’s not enough, then I’d suggest you move on to another girl. In fact, just look for one online and try to set up a date with her today.

Getting a girl to go on a date with you is just the first step. You still have to try and get her to want to hook up with you, even if you’re using a casual dating site. Being that women are complicated, they can sometimes send a lot of mixed signals to men. Good news is that the girls on Instabang are like that for the most part. however, some of them are. And men being men, always think that a woman who is just trying to be a woman is trying to seduce them into having sex with them. Guys, don’t be idiots. Instead, just make sure you know what to look for in order to determine if she wants to bang you.

Most women are not interested in sex as much as men. So don’t be stupid and don’t be caught off guard if you ask her to bang and the answer she leaves you with is a flat out no.

If you want to know if a particular woman you like, wants to have sex with you, she will likely give you a few very strong signals. Men with no experience will understand what the fuck I’m talking about now. If that’s you then don’t panic. We are here to help! If you’re someone who doesn’t know what the signals of a girl are that might want to bang, we’re here to help.

Here Are Some Signs She Wants To Bang You:

She’s Constantly Licking Her Lips

I know, it’s a pretty basic sign but it’s true. A lot of women lick their lips over and over when they are thinking about having sex or if something turns them on. If the girl you’re with is constantly licking her lips in front of you, she is probably thinking about something dirty. In fact, it could be a plea to have sex with you. Whatever you do, keep the conversation going in a sexual direction if possible. However, don’t be direct just try to make her desire more revealing until you are sure she wants it.

She Touches You In Certain Places

I’m not saying she’s actually going to grab your dick and proclaim that she wants to fuck. That’s not what I’m saying. However, she might try and get a bit physical with you from time to time if she’s feeling frisky. If she is even a little bit interested in getting down and dirty with you, she may start touching body parts that are often off limits to strangers.

For example, if you’re on a hookup date with a girl you just met online and she touches your thighs, neck or even the back of your head, she is probably horny and ready to bang you. Don’t stop there. She’s making it obvious by touching you in places she wouldn’t dare otherwise. At that point, it’s your move!

She Wears A Revealing Dress

If she wears something that’s very sexy and revealing, she is probably trying to turn you on in some way shape or form. This might be her way of saying, “I love to dress a bit naughty and I definitely like to bang.” If that’s the impression you get then there’s a good chance you might be able to bang her. Make sure you compliment her, whatever you do! If she’s bending over a lot or putting her tits in your face then you’re in luck my friend.

Well, those are some of the simple signs to look out for in order to determine if a girl wants to bang you. Remember, keep your eye on the prize my friend and good luck! And if she wants to bang, then you better bang her good!

A first date is mentally tough for both the sexes, even if it is just a bang and be done kind of date. If you are going to your first date unprepared, expect to experience a lot of awkward silence. You may get to talk a bit but if you don’t know what to talk about, your date will be nothing more than silence and occasional eye contact which is a bad sign for your future. If you can’t get her talking then there’s no way you’re going to get her to have sex with you. Trust me on that. If you want to avoid these circumstances and want your date to be as positive as possible, take out a sheet of paper and start jotting down things you want to talk about. Start by listing down questions you want to ask her. This will give you a list of topics that you can try and talk about on your first date.

The key here is to carry the conversation after you have asked a question. If you only ask a question and have nothing else to keep the conversation going within that topic, it will again end up in silence. Don’t do that. You’ll never get anywhere with that approach.

Questions You Can Ask On Your First Date

Ask your date these questions if you want to get to know her more…

Find out what makes her laugh
It’s okay to ask her what makes her laugh. Making a woman laugh is the sure shot way of getting into her pants. So start by asking her what makes her laugh a lot and then learn to make her laugh. Women love banging guys that can make them laugh. I don’t know why but they definitely do!

Ask her about her best friend (preferably male)
If she has a best male friend, you can ask her about what she likes about him. It doesn’t have to be a male but knowing what she thinks about another man can greatly help you in becoming someone she’ll like a lot. I know, it sounds a bit long term but I’m just saying, it’s important to know what she sees in guys and most likely if she’s got a best friend that’s a guy she has some good things to say about him. She will probably tell you a lot of things and from there on you can pick some points that you can fix in your own personality. Just make sure not to completely follow all the things she tells you otherwise you may become just her friend too. You’re not meeting her to make friends. You’re meeting her to hopefully have sex with her.

Ask her if she has a nickname
People have nicknames and there’s usually a funny story behind it. Make her talk about her nickname. If no one calls her by a nickname at home, at least her friends may have called her by a nickname in some point of her life. Go in details and listen to the entire story. She will probably enjoy telling you about her story and that will keep going things smooth for you. This should be enough to break the ice and keep some conversations going. You must remember that you’re not there to grill her on anything, you’re just trying to get to know her more. You’re not going to make a friend for any NSA fun if she thinks you’re treating her like this is an investigation! Keep it loose goose!

When you’re dating someone and you get the chance to bang them, the last thing you want to do is to come early! Coming earlier than desired while having sex has been a worldwide problem for a lot of men for years. There are tons of reasons why you may be experiencing premature ejaculation. While we worry a lot when we can’t last long, the problem is often very simple. I’m here to share a few tips which should help you last longer in bed. You need to know these if you’re using a site like Instabang where girls love to fuck uncontrollably for hours on end.

Here’s How To Last Longer In Bed

One of the biggest reasons why men don’t last too long in bed is because they are often too excited about having sex. The excitement can lead to early release. Please note that it’s a well-known fact that men just don’t last as long as women when it comes to having sex. Men naturally tend to last 3 minutes on average while women can last 5-6 minutes on average during sex. This isn’t a long time, I know. But how long do you really need to get off right! As long as you’re getting laid that’s all that matters.

So, if you really want to make the girl you met on Instabang feel great and have her achieve an orgasm, then you need to control that excitement and try to last longer in bed. But if you have serious problems not lasting longer in bed, follow some of the tips below to help you increase your time. What’s even worse is getting off too soon and saying something stupid after sex. That’s a sure way to end your sex streak then and there.

Edging – Learn The Technique

Practice makes perfect. Lasting longer in sex is all about practice. If you aren’t getting the chance to practice sex with a partner, go ahead and masturbate every single day. Masturbation helps you to teach your body how to control your orgasm. There is a technique known as ‘edging’ which enables men to get very close to an orgasm and then stop and bring their excitement back to normal.

Edging has helped a lot of men deal with premature ejaculation. So sit down, think of the hottest girl you’ve ever banged, or log into the hookup site of your choice and start browsing through the naked pictures. Start pleasuring yourself and try edging as much as you can.

Squeeze Your Johnson

Did you know that when you are about to orgasm, squeezing the penis actually stops the orgasm from happening? This is because when you squeeze the penis just below the top, you reduce the pressure of the blood which in returns delay the orgasm.

You will have to tightly squeeze the penis right below the head to get maximum results. It’s okay if it hurts a little. Just don’t squeeze your unit to death! If things start turning purple that’s a really bad sign!

Use Delay Sprays

If all is lost and nothing is working for you. Try using delay creams or sprays during sex. Just remember that these cause numbing on your penis so you may not get the best out of sex. But they are strong enough to numb your penis so that the sensations are minimized and you can last longer. You may be able to find a few condoms that have this type of cream already on them to help you last longer in bed.

Try not to over-apply the cream or spray because then you may not feel anything at all and that will cause you to lose your erection very quickly. That’s the last thing that you want to do right!

These techniques should be pretty helpful when you actually get to the point where you’re ready to bang some hot girl you met online. Until then, keep practicing and keep using the Instabang dating app that you are using to find someone to bang.

I’m going to take some time today to share a few personal date hookup tips that have helped me become one of the most successful individuals getting laid online through the use of random hookup sites. These tips are applicable no matter what site you’re using. It truly doesn’t matter at all. Just read the tips and you’ll find out why.

Date Hookup Tips That Continue To Get Me Laid

#1 Use The Search

Want to get lucky on any hookup dating site then you better be using the search to the best of it’s capability.

If you’re simply logging on and hoping to find someone who’s going to message you and instantly bang you then you’re dreaming. You need to search them out if you want to be successful. Go for the advanced search tools too.

#2 Always Follow Up

If you’ve gotten laid and you had a nice date with a girl or even just a nice lay, then you should follow up with her after the act.

Let her know she’s not just a wham bam thank you chick (even if she is) because there’s a good chance that you might be able to have sex with her again if you play your cards right.

Make sure you don’t say something stupid after having sex with her or you won’t need to bother following up.

#3 Pay For Things

I don’t care if she insists on paying. You do not let her pay! It makes you look so much better if you pay for things and in fact, that use to be the only way it worked in the past. Open your wallet up, do not be a cheap prick. Girls to want to bang cheapsters.

#4 Be Ready To Bang

I don’t care if you’re at the horse track in the middle of a park or at a Starbucks. You should be RTB, which means always be ready to bang! If she’s down to fuck then you better be down to do the same without some lame excuse of not being prepared.

Those are my four date hookup tips for the day. If you forget any of them, just revisit this post. Matter of fact, you should save this link somewhere so you can access it before every single date! These are what I’d consider ultra hookup tips! So use them or live without the bangs!

 

Believe it or not, there are rules when it comes to messaging girls online through a dating website. Whether you’re a new member to a dating site or you’re contemplating joining one, I’d suggest you read and understand what I’m about to share with you. These tips are applicable regardless of what adult dating site you’re using. It’s inevitable that you’ll need to know this at some point in time so pay attention carefully…

Important Rules For Messaging Girls On Dating Sites

Here’s a quick rundown for you on five things that you should never do when it comes to dating and messaging girls online.

Don’t Demand
If you sound too demanding then you’re never going to hear back from any girls. Demanding anything on a message that you send to a potential hook up will have girls running faster than Tina ran from Ike! She doesn’t work for you and you’re not the boss so cut that shit out!

Don’t Be Corny
I must also warn you that girls still do not like corny guys. They find them funny, cute and like to talk about them but they don’t like to bang them. Therefore, it’s in your best interest to not be a cornball or say anything too corny to her. For example, the “You must be sweating because you’re so damn hot” one-liners aren’t going to get you anywhere.

Don’t Look Desperate
If you look desperate the only thing a girl is going to do is for you is feel bad for you. They may take you out, make you pay but they won’t have sex with you if they think you’re desperate. So do not message a girl five times if she doesn’t respond. Just let it go and move on.

Don’t Say Strange Stuff
Girls that use online dating sites want to know that they are dealing with normal guys that just want some kind of no strings attached date, that’s all they want. They don’t want to hear something strange come out of your mouth. It’s only going to be a huge turn-off and make them think WTF, hell no!

Don’t Ask Her Out Right Away
This is pretty important. You must play it cool and not ask her out right away when you message her. Get to know that girl first before you ask her out. If you start to feel like you’re making progress then you can ask her out. If you go in for the kill too soon you’re bound to never succeed.

These are all pretty simple tips but they should help and you should definitely consider them to be staple rules for messaging girls online using any dating app or website of any nature.

Craigslist dating is some of the creepiest online ads that I’ve ever seen in my life. I’ve used a ton of online dating sites (both free and paid) and I’ve never come across creepier ads than those that I’ve encountered using Craigslist. Here’s an ad I found that should give you enough reasons as to why you should do your best to avoid using it if you’re trying to meet someone to bang.

Creepy Craigslist Dating Ad Posted on Valentine’s Day

For starters, here’s a snapshot of the ad that was published in a local Craigslist section in the Portland, Washington area.

For starters, the ad was posted by a 55-year-old man looking for a roommate. His title indicated something along the lines of Roommates, friends, dating and some other creepy shit.

His ad stated that he was low maintenance and looking for a roommate of the opposite sex at around 45 years of age. He mentioned some shitty dating site called Plenty of Fish that literally never got me laid EVER! He then went on to talk about how it would be really cool to have a roommate that you become romantic with. This is really fucking distrubing, to say the least.

A couple of reasons why you want to avoid using Craigslist for any dating what so ever is because of the following:

Not Moderated – You literally have no idea (most of the time) what this person even looks like that’s placed the ad. There’s no verification and the site is basically not moderated at all.

No Guarantee – The site doesn’t offer any guarantee that you’ll be hooking up anytime soon. In fact, it’s just the opposite.

No Support – If you come across a situation where a date or meet up with someone goes bad, there’s really nothing that can be done about it. Because you’re not using a site like Instabang, you’re not going to get the stellar customer service that you normally would.

Honestly, if this isn’t enough reason for you to never ever use Craigslist dating then I don’t know what to say. I’d focus on spending time using better hook up sites that actually work instead of crappy Craigslist!

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Hi everyone! Todd here and back on this beautiful day to help educate you on something important when it comes to dating. If you’re anything like me then you use dating sites on a regular basis in an attempt to get laid. If this applies to you, then there’s a good chance that you’ve come across a couple terms or acronyms that you might not be familiar with. One of those terms may, in fact, be the term NSA. I’m here to help you understand what that term means.

What Exactly Does NSA Mean?

Well, the acronym NSA is an abbreviated way of saying “no strings attached” and it’s quite commonly used on sites that I frequent for hooking up. The idea behind no strings attached or NSA is that you can connect with someone that does not have the intentions of having a long term or serious relationship. Having “strings attached” is basically like saying you’re dating and are looking for someone to become a girlfriend or boyfriend. That’s not what NSA dating is about, though. In fact, it’s the complete opposite of that! Strings attached can be an absolute nightmare and I’m not even going to get into all of that today here. Instead, I’ll remain focused on the main topic!

Is NSA Better or worse?

If I had to give my personal opinion on this, I’d without a doubt have to say that NSA is far better than anything else. Any other way to date simply means that you have other obligations and things that you have to take into consideration when hooking up with someone. It can get complicated doing it this way. That’s why I prefer to come right out and explain to people that I’m only looking for an NSA relationship or experience and I do so right on my dating profile. I believe that taking any other approach is a waste of time really.

Now, if you’re looking to bang, then I suggest that you spend the entire day messaging people using the Instabang website messaging system. I’ll be doing the same because I want to find someone to fuck tonight! After all, it is Friday and it’s time to get down, get down!

I used to have a long-term girlfriend until I discovered what having hookups was like. There is absolutely no way that long-term relationships are ever going to be as fun as instant hookups. I’ve had both and I’m going to share a few reasons as to why I love and prefer instant hookup sex versus have a girlfriend any day of the week!

Instant Hookups Are The Best, Here’s Why…

I’ve gone through my notes and here are the main reasons why finding an instant hookup online is the best way to get laid. I’m not going to waste your time with too much fluff here. Instead, I’ll get straight to the point.

Fewer Problems

The first reason why instant hookups are much better than long-term relationships aka love is the fact that you can have a one-and-done with no problems at all.

No hassles of having to communicate with the same person over and over. No boring sex that you’ll have to put yourself through. Instead, you can find someone local to hook up with and call it a day.

Less Expensive

Having instant hookups from time to time is much cheaper than getting into a relationship, especially if you’re using a website specifically catered to connecting individuals to hookups like the Instabang dating service.

New Experiences

Every hookup with someone new is a new experience. When you’re in a long relationship, you end up having the same experiences over and over. That gets extremely boring. So boring that I don’t think I’ll ever settle down again.

More Looking

The final reason why an instant hookup date is better than having a girlfriend is that tons of girls out there just want to get laid.

If I told you there were single girls in your local area who were just looking for nothing but something to bang them what would you say? You’d say heck yes! Show me who they are right?. Of course, you would.

Conclusion

These reasons should be enough for you to want to start searching for a few instant hookups yourself. If you’re taken and you just want to safely experiment online, then I suggest you do so very careful not to get caught or you just break up now.

If you’re single, join a site like Instabang for the ultimate hookup experience. As I said, I gave up on relationships long ago after I discovered how fun dating online really can be.