Most single guys want a fuck buddy or a friend with benefits. If you can achieve it, it’s a hot and convenient thing to have. Reason being, you have someone to have sex with and can still enjoy going out on the prowl. There comes a time when you might start hoping for something serious. That’s when you need to determine whether you are staying a fuck buddy or moving into serious relationship territory. Here are some signs that will help you tell the difference.

Differences Between A Fuck Buddy And Serious Partner

Here are some of the most obvious differences between having a fuck buddy and being in a serious relationship. Good new for you is that I’ve got solid evidence and proof that you’re just a fuck buddy. Pay close attention to the following observations and be on the lookout for any of them.

Proof that you’re in fuck buddy territory…

She doesn’t focus her attention on you. She focuses most of her attention on other friends and people that are around or spreads her attention out evenly. The only time she gives you more attention is when she has a had a few drinks and feeling frisky.

It seems to put her in a better mood to be around other friends than it does to be around you.

She seems uncomfortable when you talk about your feelings and other personal things. Honestly, this is a great sign, you don’t want those problems on your back.

She sometimes seems annoyed by you and considers you more of an obligation than a partner.

She seems uncomfortable with any type of public affection and confines touching or kissing to the bedroom. Another plus unless public sex is your thing.

Every time you have a disagreement, no matter how intense, she wants to have sex and forget about it.

She does not hesitate to flirt with other guys, even if you are standing right next to her. That means it’s fine for you to do the same. GO ahead, flirt with women all you want in front of her.

The main thing you do together is drink and get drunk before banging. You never go on an official date.

She is fine with you leaving after you have sex or she is the one to leave.

Proof that you’re in “relationship” territory…

She shows that she misses you by hugging and kissing you when she sees you.

She focuses a lot of attention on you, even when other friends are around.

She tries to motivate you and help you make decisions about your life and she’s not afraid to get personal.

She is always on your side when you have issues with other friends or family.

She is not afraid to tell you what she is thinking and she does not avoid emotional issues.

After you have had sex, she wants to stay with you and still seems like she wants to be close to you and touch you.

She shows interest in being adventurous and she wants to have those adventures with you. Think of these as memories that she banks away during any serious relationship.

Both of you discuss what you want to do with your lives and she mentions things she wants to do with you in the future.

She is not afraid to be romantic. She surprises you by buying you something that you discussed together and acts affectionate with you, even when you are not in the bedroom.

She gets jealous when you talk to another girl or talk about going out with a girl, but tries to cover it up and act like she’s fine with it.

She professes her love for you. She might say it in a friendly way, at first, to get an idea of what your reaction will be.

Okay, so by now you should be able to easily tell the difference between a fuck buddy and a serious relationship. If you’re in the latter of the two, then run like the wind! If not, then find more people to bang using this website.

I’m not saying that I’m perfect by any means, but I know what you should not do if you’re on a casual date. The dating scene can be a tricky thing to maneuver. Some people thrive and some tank. Online dating has made things a bit easier because you can cast your net wide as fuck. You can also put together a presentation that will attract a date without having to worry about approaching someone cold. In other words, you can make the connection without fear, essentially. Trying to make a first impression can be a ball buster in person but online it’s quite simple. Sadly, many still make some of the same mistakes as they did with standard dating. The difference is, it’s easier to fix some of those mistakes if you recognize them. That’s why I’m going out of my way to share some with you today.

Common Mistakes People Make On Casual Dates (And When Dating Online In General)

Here are some common mistakes single people make when dating online. If you’re using a site like IBang, then you need to read this article and understand what I’m saying to you!

Revealing Dirty Little Secrets

One mistake that is very easy to make online is revealing your secrets that a new dating prospect doesn’t need to know. First, you don’t reveal too much too soon because there must be some mystery. You can lay yourself out bare for someone to misinterpret. You could be missing out on a lot of matches because they’re turned off that you reveal too much, especially things they may consider negative. If you start going out with someone, they will know all your secrets eventually. There’s no need to reveal them before you even meet.

Making Almost Everything About You

This is a common mistake that many singles make both online and in person. Whether you are messaging them or talking to them in person; it’s crucial that you do not make everything about you. You have to show interest in them and what they are all about. If a potential date only hears about you every time you talk, they’re going to be bored. People love talking about themselves. You’re not the only one.

No One Likes Dating A Pessimist

If you are the type of person that puts a negative spin on everything, then smarten the heck up! What do you think is going to happen when you are trying to connect with someone? There’s nothing wrong with giving your opinion, but you must show that there is some joy in your life. Hearing negative things gets old quick. Check your pessimism at the door if you hope to get a date online or past a first casual date. Donnie downer doesn’t get in girls ever.

Aggressiveness Will Get You Nowhere

If you are going to make a connection with someone online, make it happen naturally or as naturally as possible. You can’t force someone or rush them into being with you. No one likes to be pressured into anything. If a potential date starts feeling pressure, they will move on to someone who is not so aggressive. This means excessive unanswered messages and pushing for a response or sex. Learn some texting etiquette for gosh sakes. Same goes for while being on a casual date. If your date isn’t feeling it, so be it. Don’t push it or you’ll have a restraining order on your hands.

Too Much Phone Use

This may seem like a common mistake everyone knows to avoid, but some still manage to turn off a potential date by checking their phone constantly. Habit or nervousness could cause this, but you need to keep it in mind and keep your phone in your pocket. They want to see you and talk to you. They don’t want to compete with your social media or IG girls in your news feed for your attention. Trust me, they will fear that you’re trying to hook up with other people online during the date. Don’t think they’re an idiot because they most certainly are not.

Those are all the common mistakes that I suggest you completely avoid. Should you chose to do otherwise, well, you might not bang anyone tonight…

I’m normally not one to jump from iOS to Android but I had no other choice this week. My iPhone died and I had to borrow my friend’s phone for a couple of weeks. He had an Android and I gladly took it. Sure, I wasn’t happy about using it at first, but once I got everything downloaded that I used it was a breeze. That’s when I decided to use the Instabang Android App for the entire week. Let me tell you what I learned about it when doing so…

Things I Learned While Using The Instabang Android App on My Phone

I’ll keep things straight to the point here and cover only what’s necessary. Why?  Well, I want you to have plenty of time to use the app itself versus having me share my experiences all day long. I tend to get long-winded at times, sorry.

Simple To Download

The first thing I want to say about the app is that it was simple to download. I think it took about 45 seconds to get the entire app downloaded on my phone and get re-registered. I technically did not need to get reregistered but I decided to do so anyway. That process took a total of about four minutes. Once I was logged in, I was ready to rock and roll.

Familiar Navigation

The next thing I noticed about using the app was how similar the navigation was to the iOS app. It was almost identical and at times it felt like the Instabang app was running smoother on the Android phone.

Keep in mind, that is coming from a guy that eats, sleeps, and breathes this casual hook-up dating site. I need and expect things to run perfectly or I flip the fuck out. The good news is, I didn’t need to flip out using the Android phone.

Great Messaging

Messaging via the phone was pretty badass. In fact, text messaging in general on Android is just short of spectacular. I know, I sound like a geek but it’s so true. If you like to IM or text women on the regular, then you won’t have a problem doing so using this app.

In fact, I think I was able to connect with about 9 girls over the course of the week using the Android app. It works way better than Tinder too, that’s for sure! One of the girls ended up becoming my latest FWB chick that I smash on the regular now.

Reaching Out To Support

I had to reach out to customer support one time while using the app and they connected and helped me out almost immediately. I had an issue with the phone and it was purely tech-related. The support staff went out of their way to help me fix it so that I could properly use the app. Talk about top-notch service!

Conclusion

The bottom line is that I was stubborn in not wanting to use the Android phone and when I did, it changed my perspective on using the Instabang app completely. I’ll now recommend that anyone on this earth use the Instabang Android app if they want to meet girls to have more sex. Plain and simple, the shit works!

I’ve been using the Instabang dating site for what seems like forever now. All I can say is that I did one thing recently that changed my sex life forever. That’s right, I bought a puppy! Let me tell you everything I did and how it changed my sex life for the better.

Here’s How Buying A Puppy Improved My Sex Life

For starters, I want to explain what I did and how I did it. Not only did I go out and buy the cutest damn dog you’ve ever seen, but I went ahead and showcased it to the world on my dating profile online and other mainstream social networks.

The very first thing that I did was update my dating profile. I made sure that it displayed the cutest photo of myself and my doggy. Why did I do this? Simple! Girls love puppies and they want to play with them.

Doing so improved my response rate when reaching out to local girls on Instabang. It was something that made my life that much easier.

Next thing I did was post a video of the two of us. I did this to provide further social proof that I actually own a puppy.

Now, what I did next was the real winning piece of the formula…

I went to a busy location where local women always hang out. You can head to a busy coffee shop, park, or any other place that might be where folks tend to gather. I immediately posted an image of myself and my dog onto Instabang and I mentioned where I was.

What the did was let other girls in the surrounding location know that I was there. My phone immediately started blowing up with likes and girls reaching out telling me how cute the puppy was. One thing led to another and I found myself meeting new women that were members of Instabang in that were hanging out in public places. The doggie photo attracted them enough to want to meet me and it was all downhill from there.

I must have done this at various locations around town for about a month before I stumbled across one of the same girls that I fucked. I’m telling you right now, if you want to get more local booty, then you need to get a puppy.

What type of puppy should you get?

Well, that’s completely up to you. I like Boston terriers (shown above), so I went with one of those dogs. They’re cute, small, and easy to take care of. Not to mention, they’re full of energy.

In the event that you don’t want to get a puppy, then you do not have to. Instead, you can always ask a friend if you can borrow theirs to babysit! I’m pretty certain that they’ll love you for doing that and you’ll also get the benefit of being more attractive looking.

Here’s a bonus tip, college girls absolutely love pups! It doesn’t matter what breed, they seem to be what I call the ultimate panty dropper.

Ever wanted to have a few bang buddies to hook up with on a regular basis? I’m sure you do because I do too. Many guys, including myself, have found themselves in the unfortunate situation of being put in the friend zone. You know the situation. You fall in love with her and she thinks of you more like a buddy. This can hurt and could result in you losing your dignity, being taken advantage of, or at the very least being left in the friend zone indefinitely. She is either not attracted to you at all, or you made a mistake that put you in the friend zone. Either way, there is a way to recover. Follow these simple suggestions and you could possibly make the leap from friend to bang buddy.

Tips For Getting A Girl To Become Your Bang Buddy

Whether you’re a veteran dater or new to the scene, read this and find out how to go from friends to bang buddies with very little effort.

Remain Aloof – One thing that you should avoid at all costs is losing your dignity and appearing too desperate. This could not only ruin your chances of ever being her lover, it could ruin your friendship as well. It is important to be cool, or at least appear cool with the situation and don’t try to push her into a relationship that she does not want.

Become A Better Version Of You – This does NOT mean that you should become who she wants you to be. All humans should make a constant effort to better themselves. Think about the characteristics that you aren’t very proud of and make a change for the better. She might start to realize that she misjudged you and decide that you are a potential lover after all.

Stop Trying To Seduce Her – One of the worst things you can do is continue pushing yourself on her. This could make her uncomfortable around you and even cause frustration. This is another thing that can ruin your chances of getting out of the friend zone and ruin your friendship as well. She doesn’t want to feel like she’s being forced into anything.

Don’t Spend Time Exclusively – Avoid hanging out with her constantly. Go out and spend time with other people. You definitely need to be dating many people online at this time. If you act like a little puppy dog following her around everywhere she goes, that is exactly how she’s going to think of you. Be your own person, independent of her, if you ever hope to convince her of what she’s missing.

Calculated Flirting – You should not try to seduce her, but you don’t have to cut out flirting altogether either. Make your flirting as subtle as possible and never let it reach the point where it’s obvious. Get close to her from time to time or touch her arm or leg when you’re talking. She could eventually come around if you don’t push the issue.

If All Else Fails… If you have tried everything mentioned above and you are still firmly stuck in the friend zone, give up. Yes, you read that right. Give up on trying to get her to come around and just be her friend, even if it hurts. If you are meant to be together, she will come around. If not, move on and find someone else and don’t make her feel like you were only her friend because you wanted to be her lover.

Look, if you can’t put these simple tips to work for youself, then I really don’t know what to say to you. I’ve successfully been banging friends for years and it’s something that I thoroughly enjoy. You can be in the same position if you play your cards right!

One thing I have noticed while navigating the world of online dating is that there are a lot more horny women out there than I realized. Back when you had to go out to bars and clubs to look for a hookup, you could certainly find some horny women who wanted a no strings attached fling, but it took some effort. You had to go through a lot of trial and error to separate the horny women from the women who were looking for a relationship. Plus, when you did find horny women, they weren’t always your ideal match and there were times when you had to settle for a less than gorgeous woman to satisfy your urges.

How Using The Internet Makes It Easier To Meet Horny Women

Thanks to the Internet and online dating sites like this one, those days are gone. You now have a medium that allows you to not only search for a hookup at home, you can also afford to be more selective because you have more choices. You can also present yourself in the best way possible with time to work on your ideal presentation. Let’s look at some ways to increase your chances of attracting horny women using online dating.

Your Online Presentation

The first thing you need to do is find the right dating website or app. Do a little research and find the most effective online dating platform in your area that fits your tastes and preferences. Don’t just choose the first one that comes up because many of them are frauds. Look for a dating site that has a lot of good reviews and customer testimonials. Once you have found the right platform, you can start working on your presentation.

Register for the site or app of your choice and start building your profile. Don’t skimp on the details and add pictures that are flattering without being cheesy. Meaning; no selfies of you holding up your shirt in the bathroom mirror. Choose a photo of you looking your best and make sure it represents the way you look now, not when you were younger or skinnier. Fill out your profile info thoroughly to increase your chances of finding a hookup that shares your interests.

Choosing The Method of Communication That Suits You

Another advantage of using hookup sites is that many of them have multiple choices for how you want to communicate. You can experiment with texting, sexting, e-mail, instant message, standard chat, or video chat and determine which one you are most comfortable with. Much like with standard dating; it is important that you appear confident and comfortable in your own skin. If you find a medium of communication that you are good at, you will be more likely to attract the best matches possible.

Video chat is probably the most effective, but it’s not necessarily the best choice for you. If your looks are your strength, video chat is ideal. If you don’t have conventional good looks and your personality is your strength, you should use words and carefully chosen pictures to present yourself in a way that attracts your ideal matches.

College is awesome and so is dating people you meet on the Internet. Chances are you’ve not reached your peak of enjoyment if you’re not dating online. Actually, there are many college students who complain that their studies are too challenging to leave time for a social life. Sure, many students spend most of their college life partying, but not all are stellar students who maintain good grades. So, what are you supposed to do if you are in college to learn and study like a nerd? Well, chances are you still crave a social life and more specifically sex! You might not have realized that your answer has been right in front of your face for years. That answer is Internet dating. I’m going to tell you why it makes your college life legit.

Reasons Internet Dating Enhances Your College Life Experience

There are many things that you can do to make your college life experience better. However, none of those things top using the Internet to meet someone to date. If you’re a bookworm that’s craving things while in college like socializing, sex, and more, then you need to keep reading.

Fact 1: It is Possible to Have Good Grades AND Good Sex

Some students may feel that they need to sacrifice their social life to be successful in college. Even if they have a night off now and then, they don’t take advantage of it because they don’t have enough time to socialize and connect with other students. Lack of money because of the high cost of attending college is another factor that prompts them to stay in. Well, the good news for these students is, online dating is just the answer they need to satisfy their need for social and sexual connections.

If you finish a night of studying early, you don’t have to waste a lot of time getting ready and going out on the prowl to find someone to hook up with. You can do it from the comfort of your dorm and you don’t have to get up and get ready until you have made a connection and you go out to meet a sure thing. The time-saving possibilities are immense and you can also increase your chances of connecting with an ideal mate who shares your interests and fetishes. Both of you make your interests clear from the start, so you don’t have to beat around the bush or play games if you are out to have sex and nothing more.

Fact 2: College Life is Perfect for Online Hookups

One thing you will realize when you search for a hookup online is that you are, by far, not the only one who is looking for a fling. The constant rise of the popularity of online dating means many students in your area have the same idea as you do and they are waiting for someone like you to hook up with. It would also increase your chances if you keep your ears open to find out what casual dating sites and just bang apps are popular on your campus. Word travels fast on campus and, if a lot of students are hooking up with a certain site or app, you will hear them sing its praises and the probability of hooking up increases as the number of users in your area rises.

If there was ever a time when you can enjoy a sexual awakening without interfering with your life goals, it’s during your college years. You don’t have parents to answer to and you have a medium that allows you to efficiently and effectively look for casual sex partners without sacrificing your grades or study time. If that doesn’t sound like the perfect recipe for fun living then I don’t know what does!

There are certain places the I almost always avoid for any type of dates 99% of the time. I do make exceptions but for the most part, this is something that I simply cannot let slide. Whether you are trying to meet someone locally to bang or if you’re looking for something more steady, I would do your best to take my advice and avoid these places.

Date Places I Always Avoid

This is a short list of places I refuse to take dates for one reason or another. You’ll likely agree with me once you take a look at the list. If you have anything to add, feel free to email me suggestions.

McDonald’s and Burger King

I 100% refuse to meet any date at either of these fast food restaurants. If a girl asks me to meet them at one of these places, I’m calling the date off for sure. Chances are they are out of shape and just want a free shitty meal. No way am I contributing to your weight gain and sloth-ness whatsoever!

Ex Gfs Favorite Restaurant

One of the other places I never go is my ex-girlfriends favorite restaurant. Honestly, I’m not trying to impress anyone or be seen with a random girl. Instead, I’d rather meet some new chick, fuck her and call it a day! All without the drama of running into an ex of some sort.

Church

Okay, I’m not very religious, but I’m not taking any woman to a church function. I just don’t feel right doing so if my intentions aren’t to marry her. It’s a personal weird gut feeling that I get, what can I say. I’m able to use dating apps to bang women but I won’t meet them at a church.

Her Family Outing

There’s absolutely no way that I’m going to meet someone at their family outing for the first time. I’m not there to meet and fuck the family, I just want to bang her. First-time family meet ups are for those willing to stick it out longer than one night.

My Favorite Bar

I never take girls to my regular bar spot. Reason being, if it goes south, I don’t need her coming back and spending all her time stalking me at my comfortable bar spot. She could easily blow up my spot any day of the week and I’m not having any of that. If I want to get drunk and hang with the guys, she might even fuck all that up for me. It’s not worth it at all!

Any of the date plans or places listed above are completely out of the question. I’ll avoid them at all costs and I think you should too. It will not help you get laid any quicker.

In the age of technology; the primary method of hooking up has become online dating sites. There are many standard dating sites out there, but there are also a lot of niche sites that promote casual sex. Singles can go to these sites and find people to hook up with without worrying about being tied down and the goal is no strings attached sex. Finding a hookup in this environment can be easy or it can be hard depending on how you approach it. Here are some techniques to help you be successful in hooking up online.

Hookup Success Tips That I Consider Must-Knows

Find Your Niche – Hookup sites are technically a niche, but there are many hookup sites that have a particular niche that they cater to. If you use a casual dating site that is exclusive to people with certain interests or characteristics, then you will narrow down the playing field quite a bit. Some niches involve ethnicity, location, interests, and even certain fetishes. Sites like this help you make a more concentrated effort to find like-minded people for effortless hookups.

Be Confident, Not Cocky – One of the major necessities when approaching any dating platform is confidence. That doesn’t mean you should be a cocky asshole. Confidence is very different from being cocky and you should realize the difference before you look for a sex date. Women are attracted to confident guys and I would even go as far as to say that it matters even more than looks. Be comfortable in your own skin and know your worth and she is likely to pick up on that.

Slow Your Role – Just because both parties know what you are there for, you should still use some discretion and not rush into any sexual situation (unless she shows that she wants to move fast). If you try to rush things, you could come off as desperate and harm your chances of getting laid. Women don’t like to be pushed into any situation and you will only serve to push her away. Gauge her reactions to your flirting and go at her pace.

Try Some Sex Chat – In an effort to keep things at a pace that is comfortable for her, you can get a little sexual on chat before you meet her in person. This will show that you have the charm and sensuality to turn her on and she will be comfortable to be a little more sexually aggressive than she would be in person. It also allows you to build anticipation which will make your inevitable sexual encounter that much sweeter.

The Meeting – After some chatting and gauging her interests, you can begin suggesting a face to face meeting. Try to confine your meeting to a public place. The more comfortable and safe she feels with you, the more she will let go of her inhibitions. It’s very important to have no expectations going in. Your next move should always depend on her reaction to your affections. Go at her pace and you will get much farther.

Thinking of the right place to take a girl on a first date is a very important part of making a good impression and assuring that there will be a second date. The first thing that you should realize is that there is no ideal place where every person should take a first date. It varies from person to person and you should always pay attention to your date’s interests and hobbies. The best type of first date is one that is fun, intimate and exclusive to your common interests.

You shouldn’t think of only what interests you because you will appear selfish. Alternatively, you shouldn’t think of only what interests your date because you will appear desperate. If you are not having a good time, it will show. If she senses that you are being fake, it could turn her off because it shows a lack of confidence as well as a willingness to lie and deceive. Although every first date should reflect the interests of both you and your date; here are some suggestions to help you with your decision.

Great Date Spots To Hit For Great Dating Experience

Bars or Clubs – These date spots are more effective at finding a date or hookup than they are at being a first date spot, but they can still be a good choice depending on your interests. If you choose this option, you should put some thought into the type of bar or club you go to and choose a place with interesting characteristics or one that plays music that both of you are fond of.

Movies – This has been a classic first date choice for generations. What matters most is your choice of movie. Don’t choose a movie that interests you only. Don’t choose a movie that doesn’t interest you just to please her either. A quality drama or comedy is good, but make your choice based on your common interests or even ask her what movies she’s looking forward to seeing in your conversations leading up to the date.

Concerts – Concerts are a little loud for a first date, but you can talk before and after the concert and between bands. Live music can be very exciting and may even help her drop her inhibitions, especially if it’s a band she is excited to see. Much like with the movie choices, choose a concert that both of you will enjoy. Sharing a positive concert experience can be very powerful.

Museum or Art Gallery – This choice might seem boring to some people, but it can also be very romantic and show that you have some culture. Museums are usually quiet leaving plenty of room for good conversation as well.

Restaurants – This choice should be obvious and could precede any of the choices above. Take her to a nice restaurant that serves quality food that you both like. It’s also a good idea to follow any of the choices above with a visit to a small restaurant or café for dessert.

Having spent a good portion of my time while dating online going to random places and taking dates to various date spots, I know what works and what doesn’t. In the event that you want to perhaps get lucky, then you can attempt to take your date to one of the places mentioned above. None of them are over the top and you’ll likely have great success doing so! Meet someone online, take them out to eat, and bang a local girl today.