There is a time right after college when the world is at your feet. Most likely you want to spend that time barhopping and making out with a bunch of girls. Trust me, I totally get it!
You just finished up your education that prepared you for the fun road ahead and you just want to have a little fun before you set forth on the journey through adult life. A big part of after college fun is barhopping and a big part of barhopping is making out with multiple girls. I’m not talking hooking up, just making out and having some fun before hooking up. Think of it as testing the waters before finding the one you want to take home.
Barhopping 101: Tips For Making Out With Girls You Meet
Here are a few tips on how to make out with multiple girls while barhopping…
Learn How To Dance – One thing that is going to get you noticed by multiple girls and give you a big advantage over other guys is dancing. The better you dance, the more high caliber girls you will make out with, it’s that simple. If you don’t dance, you better be prince charming and look like Brad Pitt.
Eyes Find Eyes – If you are interested in a girl at a bar, start making eye contact. Don’t stare. Just let your eyes find each other. If she fixates on you, then you can stare. Once you make solid eye contact, start moving toward her. Make it look like you are just strolling through the bar at first then head in her direction and make your move.
If She Wants To Talk, Then Talk – Sometimes you can start dancing next to a girl on the dance floor once you’ve made eye contact and that’s enough to start the process that leads to making out. There has to be instant heat for this to happen. Otherwise, talk to her and turn on the charm.
Don’t Get Carried Away – This goes for both your advances and your alcohol intake. Don’t come on too strong or you’ll cause her to lose interest. If you get a little carried away drinking and turn into a belligerent drunk, every girl in the bar will lose interest.
Don’t Burn Your Spot, Keep Moving – It is possible to achieve making out with multiple girls in one bar or club if it’s big enough and packed with enough people (I have). Otherwise you should move on to the next bar after each make out session. If you are spotted moving from girl to girl, it could get people talking and complicate your mission, i.e. burn your spot.
These barhopping tips are important and if you play your cards right, you could find yourself instant messaging girls you’ve made out with at the bar asking them to come over to fuck. It’s very common that making out leads to banging because it’s just the nature of it all.