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What Does NSA Mean?

Hi everyone! Todd here and back on this beautiful day to help educate you on something important when it comes to dating. If you’re anything like me then you use dating sites on a regular basis in an attempt to get laid. If this applies to you, then there’s a good chance that you’ve come across a couple terms or acronyms that you might not be familiar with. One of those terms may, in fact, be the term NSA. I’m here to help you understand what that term means.

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What Exactly Does NSA Mean?

Well, the acronym NSA is an abbreviated way of saying “no strings attached” and it’s quite commonly used on sites that I frequent for hooking up. The idea behind no strings attached or NSA is that you can connect with someone that does not have the intentions of having a long term or serious relationship. Having “strings attached” is basically like saying you’re dating and are looking for someone to become a girlfriend or boyfriend. That’s not what NSA dating is about, though. In fact, it’s the complete opposite of that! Strings attached can be an absolute nightmare and I’m not even going to get into all of that today here. Instead, I’ll remain focused on the main topic!

Is NSA Better or worse?

If I had to give my personal opinion on this, I’d without a doubt have to say that NSA is far better than anything else. Any other way to date simply means that you have other obligations and things that you have to take into consideration when hooking up with someone. It can get complicated doing it this way. That’s why I prefer to come right out and explain to people that I’m only looking for an NSA relationship or experience and I do so right on my dating profile. I believe that taking any other approach is a waste of time really.

Now, if you’re looking to bang, then I suggest that you spend the entire day messaging people using the Instabang website messaging system. I’ll be doing the same because I want to find someone to fuck tonight! After all, it is Friday and it’s time to get down, get down!

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Why Instant Hookups Are Better Than Long Term Relationships

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I used to have a long-term girlfriend until I discovered what having hookups was like. There is absolutely no way that long-term relationships are ever going to be as fun as instant hookups. I’ve had both and I’m going to share a few reasons as to why I love and prefer instant hookup sex versus have a girlfriend any day of the week!

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Instant Hookups Are The Best, Here’s Why…

I’ve gone through my notes and here are the main reasons why finding an instant hookup online is the best way to get laid. I’m not going to waste your time with too much fluff here. Instead, I’ll get straight to the point.

Fewer Problems

The first reason why instant hookups are much better than long-term relationships aka love is the fact that you can have a one-and-done with no problems at all.

No hassles of having to communicate with the same person over and over. No boring sex that you’ll have to put yourself through. Instead, you can find someone local to hook up with and call it a day.

Less Expensive

Having instant hookups from time to time is much cheaper than getting into a relationship, especially if you’re using a website specifically catered to connecting individuals to hookups like the Instabang dating service.

New Experiences

Every hookup with someone new is a new experience. When you’re in a long relationship, you end up having the same experiences over and over. That gets extremely boring. So boring that I don’t think I’ll ever settle down again.

More Looking

The final reason why an instant hookup date is better than having a girlfriend is that tons of girls out there just want to get laid.

If I told you there were single girls in your local area who were just looking for nothing but something to bang them what would you say? You’d say heck yes! Show me who they are right?. Of course, you would.

Conclusion

These reasons should be enough for you to want to start searching for a few instant hookups yourself. If you’re taken and you just want to safely experiment online, then I suggest you do so very careful not to get caught or you just break up now.

If you’re single, join a site like Instabang for the ultimate hookup experience. As I said, I gave up on relationships long ago after I discovered how fun dating online really can be.

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Where to Bring Your First Date You Met Online?

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Pretty much everyone thinks of some variation of the movie and dinner combination of a first date schedule. But if you really want to get to know her and maybe make an impression, then you might want to employ your creative juices to flow a little and figure out what suits you two the best to carve a simple yet intelligent plan to make it a memorable time spent together. It doesn’t matter if you met at Whole Foods or if you met on an online dating site like this one, you need to think outside the box and create an experience that will be engaging for both parties.

What is a Great First Date Location?

The possibilities are endless. Has there been some adventure activity that the two of you have been planning to take on, go on it together. Para-gliding? Glide along with the lady. Scooba-diving? Dive along together, or swim with the dolphins. Wanted to go trekking? Book a tour and travel together. This would no doubt make the usual eat and watch a movie routine look real dull and blurry. It would no doubt have the adrenaline rushing and thus stimulating and encouraging both of you to make the most of your time together. It wouldn’t be something easy to replace or just forget.

Or if you want something closer to home then perhaps taking some sort of a class together would not be a bad idea. It could actually workout real nice for both of you. For instance, you two could sign up for a salsa dance class. It will turn up the heat by just the right amount and the two of you will get to play around each other in a very lively environment which will tickle your chemistry, and that only helps. The salsa is generally not very complicated but relatively an easy going style of dance which easily incorporates couples steps in beautiful harmony which is quite accommodating for beginners.

If you both have a knack for cooking then you could spice things up by attending a class together for some exotic cuisine which appeals to both of you. It would be advisable to check in before-hand of the sign up requirements so there isn’t any embarrassment of last minute change of plans upon arrival. Also check up on the venue earlier so you do not waste any time hassling around trying to locate the venue. You want to come off as organized and responsible while keeping it casual at the same time, nobody likes a pushover.

Put on your planning hat and have a great time!