Most single guys want a fuck buddy or a friend with benefits. If you can achieve it, it’s a hot and convenient thing to have. Reason being, you have someone to have sex with and can still enjoy going out on the prowl. There comes a time when you might start hoping for something serious. That’s when you need to determine whether you are staying a fuck buddy or moving into serious relationship territory. Here are some signs that will help you tell the difference.
Differences Between A Fuck Buddy And Serious Partner
Here are some of the most obvious differences between having a fuck buddy and being in a serious relationship. Good new for you is that I’ve got solid evidence and proof that you’re just a fuck buddy. Pay close attention to the following observations and be on the lookout for any of them.
Proof that you’re in fuck buddy territory…
She doesn’t focus her attention on you. She focuses most of her attention on other friends and people that are around or spreads her attention out evenly. The only time she gives you more attention is when she has a had a few drinks and feeling frisky.
It seems to put her in a better mood to be around other friends than it does to be around you.
She seems uncomfortable when you talk about your feelings and other personal things. Honestly, this is a great sign, you don’t want those problems on your back.
She sometimes seems annoyed by you and considers you more of an obligation than a partner.
She seems uncomfortable with any type of public affection and confines touching or kissing to the bedroom. Another plus unless public sex is your thing.
Every time you have a disagreement, no matter how intense, she wants to have sex and forget about it.
She does not hesitate to flirt with other guys, even if you are standing right next to her. That means it’s fine for you to do the same. GO ahead, flirt with women all you want in front of her.
The main thing you do together is drink and get drunk before banging. You never go on an official date.
She is fine with you leaving after you have sex or she is the one to leave.
Proof that you’re in “relationship” territory…
She shows that she misses you by hugging and kissing you when she sees you.
She focuses a lot of attention on you, even when other friends are around.
She tries to motivate you and help you make decisions about your life and she’s not afraid to get personal.
She is always on your side when you have issues with other friends or family.
She is not afraid to tell you what she is thinking and she does not avoid emotional issues.
After you have had sex, she wants to stay with you and still seems like she wants to be close to you and touch you.
She shows interest in being adventurous and she wants to have those adventures with you. Think of these as memories that she banks away during any serious relationship.
Both of you discuss what you want to do with your lives and she mentions things she wants to do with you in the future.
She is not afraid to be romantic. She surprises you by buying you something that you discussed together and acts affectionate with you, even when you are not in the bedroom.
She gets jealous when you talk to another girl or talk about going out with a girl, but tries to cover it up and act like she’s fine with it.
She professes her love for you. She might say it in a friendly way, at first, to get an idea of what your reaction will be.
Okay, so by now you should be able to easily tell the difference between a fuck buddy and a serious relationship. If you’re in the latter of the two, then run like the wind! If not, then find more people to bang using this website.