When dating online, whether you’re using a casual dating site or any long-term style matchmaking site, you need to present the right first message. Doing so can literally mean the difference between setting up a physical meetup and getting intimate or just sitting at home jerking off. Many people still believe in first impressions and it should come as no surprise that the first message denotes the impression that you leave on someone. Forget everything that you’ve learned about sending messages up until this point. Instead, read this carefully and you’ll know everything there is to know about sending the perfect message.
Also, I want you to know that in no way shape or form is this related to sex text messages. That’s s a completely different ball game. Let me take the wheel and get things in motion….
Important First Message Hacks To Succesful Dating Online
Here’s a short and simple list that you need to be familiar with when it comes to online dating and sending first messages.
Avoid Standard Greetings
Let me start by saying that you need to use a somewhat unusual greeting if you want to get noticed. The typical “hi” or “hey” is just too spammy sounding and downright boring. Don’t be afraid to throw out the occasional “How’s it going” or even ” Howdy” at times. I know it sounds corny but corny works and who cares right!
Don’t Over Compliment (On Physical Appearance)
Even if you’re just looking to fuck someone nearby, you can’t go straight for the body. Instead, work your way to the body. Using words like “beautiful” and “gorgeous” and most notably “sexy” are nice but they don’t work. They can even make people’s eyes roll. These types of compliments sound like pickup lines more so than anything. Be more genuine using terms like, “fascinating” and “awesome.” They are far more powerful and stand out among the rest of the horny fuckers sending her messages.
Literate Only
Spelling mistakes, poor grammar and other things that you and your buddies send back and forth is such a turnoff. Do not use terms like “ur” or “wat” because you’ll sound like a jackass. I don’t care if the girl looks like an airhead, don’t do it. Make it count and use spellcheck, or don’t get laid. Simple as that really!
Leave Religion Out
Look, we are all spiritual beings but talking about religion in a “first message” on a dating website isn’t going to help you score points. It’s not relevant to the subject at hand and some people might actually get mad about it. My advice is to keep your religious thoughts to yourself and just talk about other interests such as tattoos, eating habits, tv and more. Not religion though because it’s too personal.
If you follow these first message rules, I’m certain that you will be messaging and then meet with local sex partners in no time. Bang away my friend!